As far as her level of "class" she's in an entirely different league from almost all of the girls from elite east-coast schools that I've met. However, all that these girls talk about is their trust funds, and as to where in finance their bfs work. He is selfish, and he is a liability long term. I've never once had to make excuses for her conduct, whereas with every girl who had the "prestige" that the OP seems to want in a girl I eventually found myself having to repeatedly explain why said girl was acting like a bitch. Does he not realize that I have been sticking around waiting for 2 disadvantages now? That's why I don't want to marry a chick from a less fortunate family. I understand not wanting to date someone who is welfare poor, but you said you only became middle class in your teenage years.
Relationships, like most things are not static.
Advantages of dating a poor guy. Number 3 will shock you
It is a constant fear that all of it will come back on you and you will be the one taking care of her family in the future and even as her mom gets older. He just bought a new expensive car for his mom, because she always wanted to have that kind of car. Well, this is marriage we're talking about, not dating. Throughout this site, I seen a lot of post bashing welfare so why would you marry a chick on welfare or who can barely sustain herself? My hubby did not complete post secondary. Some guys that if the most sane woman, leaving no.