It was brief, as far as these things go, but we both went into it with the mindset of this will never turn romantic we were both just off multi-year committed relationships and very gun-shy and we ended up having a very good time together. Love isn't always enough. Advanced Dirty Talk 4. For me the sex doesn't get good until you have a good understanding of what turns each other on. Then, your bestie can let you know how he feels, and you can either act on your feelings or work on getting over them. What is the difference between friends and friends of friends?
Can I keep being friends with him?
14 signs you and your friends with benefits should maybe just date already
Talk about it first. If the other does, too, that can be good. But occasionally we have what turns out to be a pretty unusual — or bad — idea because of where our head is. For me the sex doesn't get good until you have a good understanding of what turns each other on. So on and so forth.