Conversations about money can be the great time bomb in a relationship. Group 4 Created with Sketch. Try to avoid any negative outcomes by considering whether your crush will get along with your friends and family. Oftentimes, we are afraid to hurt someone's feelings or be judged incorrectly, so we guard ourselves by not showing up authentically. Navigating love from this true space might also prevent the disconnect that happens later in relationship when we wonder why our partners are so different from who we thought they were. Would they get along with your friends and family? What do you want them to believe?
If that person is worth the risk, then by all means, go for it!
Marriage is budgets, laundry, broken toilets, work, weddings, funerals, births, and everything in between. Marriage is like rolling Play-Doh, the more two different colors are meshed together the harder it becomes to distinguish one from another. How connected do you feel? But with what you know now after going through these questions, can you sit down together and write a vision statement for your relationship? You know, that Who-are-you-and-what-did-you-do-with-the-person-I-fell-in-love-with? Am I being fully authentic in this relationship? Group 7 Created with Sketch.