Contact Us If you purchased one of our products and need help or would like to reach our news contributors you can contact us here. This guy is not it. And others said above, you need to make decisions for your life to be happy. Moving in with someone while only considering the emotional part of it is a giant mistake. For 4 years I dated my now husband before we moved in together and we were engaged when I did it. But, as a fellow indecisive person I think my brain would implode if I was given so few choices, with only a few months to make a decision, but actually much less than that right? You just need to know what you should expect if you are interested in being with this fella for a long time.
I think if we have a neutral party there we can probably hash out more of the issues at hand.
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I'm frustrated that it took him so long to give me a "No. In most relationships, couples end up sleeping over at one partner's house more than the other. You may be in different places in life. And others said above, you need to make decisions for your life to be happy. Stop and reconsider that without all of the euphemistic language, from his viewpoint, as if you were him knowing him as you doand you should have your answer.